It is a crowded gathering at one of my favorite restaurant-turned-lounges. Too crowded, in fact. My friends decide we’d rather relocate to another, less-popular venue tonight, but not before I’m handed a business card from a man who smiles kindly.
I guess I am having a good day, because I don’t toss the card into the first wastebasket in sight.
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The next day, I fiddle with the card and wonder how I want to play this. I don’t like to make the first move, but I don’t have much of a choice; after all, he doesn’t have my number. Should I text him? No, I hate text messages. I need to lead by example, and show him that I appreciate a phone call.
I ring him, wondering what I will say. I pray for his voicemail. Success! I leave a succinct but flirty message, suggesting he call me back at his convenience. There. Now the ball is in his court.
He calls me back about an hour later. We chat for an hour, too. The conversation is easy, and he seems to have a good sense of humor. We make plans to go out for dinner the next evening.
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Today is the day. We’re having dinner. Where? I don’t know.
He suggests meeting in the Pentagon area, and we can stroll and figure out where to eat. We gaze at a sign that lists all of the restaurants within walking distance.
He stares in silence for a full minute.
Guy: “I don’t like any of these restaurants.”
Me: “…um… you picked this location.”
He settles for Asian cuisine, and we are seated in an empty restaurant. After all, this is a commercial district on a weeknight. We order and our food arrives in six minutes, tops. The entire waitstaff is standing circled around us, filling our glasses of water after nearly each sip.
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He tells me that he’s ready to get married. His mom wants him to hurry up and have children. He loves his job and has received a few awards. He also has a couple of ongoing ailments that require prescription medication, I’m told. He has a big house in Maryland. He tells me that he’s ready to get married (yes, he said this multiple times).
I’m feeling a bit like Oprah; he’s being interviewed and I’m nodding inquisitively. He’s sharing his life story, yet asks nothing about little ol’ me. I wonder if he’s just on a mission to get married. To anyone.
After a solid 45 minutes, I chalk the date up to informal news media experience.
Tonight at 11, one woman is happily single eating leftover beef with mixed vegetables.
– Elle La Belle DC